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Hire your own family law attorney
as soon as possible, even if you want to handle your own divorce
or go through mediation. Think of your attorney as your coach
and advisor. Remember, first and foremost, that your divorce
is an important legal matter. |
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Make an inventory of all assets
and liabilities. List the cost basis of the assets and estimated
fair market value of each. Start thinking of how you might
want to divide them. |
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Make copies of all documents
and statements to support values and title ownership on the
above list of assets and liabilities. The inventory list and
these supporting documents provide you and your attorney with
a starting point for a division of community assets. Keep
checking your list against statements in the daily mail that
you and your spouse receive to make sure you have accounted
for everything. |
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Don't hide assets from your
spouse. Such action often results in costing you more in the
long run. |
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Try to work with your spouse to reach an
agreement on the property division that you inventoried above,
as well as matters concerning your children. |
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Look for advice from your attorney. If you
and your spouse cannot ultimately agree, then your divorce
could end up being more costly, or decisions could be left
to the court that you and your spouse may not agree with. |
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It is difficult to be in agreement with your
spouse on everything in a Marital Settlement Agreement. Instead
of arguing every point, try to look at the overall agreement
to see if it is acceptable and fair. There will always be
things you like and some things you do not. It may not be
worth arguing about some of those areas you are not in agreement
on. Ask your advisor (attorney) for guidance in this area. |
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Using an experienced mediator in family law
matters may help you work out an agreement, which may save
you time and money. This may include using a neutral accountant
to value a family business or professional practice and other
marital assets such as stock options. |
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Be aware that the courts value assets at
their current fair market value and generally do not take
into consideration the tax basis of the assets. There could
be significant deferred tax liabilities attributable to an
asset. |
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Don't forget to discuss with your spouse
how tax returns will be filed during the divorce process period,
including the taxability of temporary or permanent support
payments and the claiming of itemized deductions. Taxable
support may require quarterly estimated tax payments to be
made by the recipient. The payor may be able to reduce his
or her withholding for this anticipated tax deduction. Consider
getting income tax projections prepared during this period.
There are some good tax planning opportunities and you need
to know which ones apply to you, so seek the advice of a qualified
forensic family law CPA. |
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Remember, to be deductible by the payor,
alimony must be per written agreement (divorce or separation
agreement). Therefore, voluntary payments during the divorce
process period are not deductible to the payor spouse and
are not taxable to the payee spouse. |
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If you have a complex case with each party
just working with their attorney, do not forget to address
in writing the tax consequences to each party regarding reimbursement
issues and Epstein Credits. |
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Part of your attorney costs may be deductible.
Be sure to check this out with your tax preparer and get itemized
billings to support any deductions. |
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Check with your attorney about changing the
beneficiary on life insurance policies and retirement accounts.
Also check with your attorney about updating your will. |
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Don't forget to include in your inventory
list of assets and liabilities, the contents in the safe deposit
box. |
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The California courts have specifically
held that Social Security benefits are separate property.
However, this relates only to primary Social Security rights.
There is another class of benefits called "derivative
benefits," which are payable to the non-working spouse
after retirement following a ten-year marriage. It is important
that these benefits be reserved in the marital settlement
agreement. We have included under related links the web site
to contact Social Security.
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